Life is not as simple as it looks. Many times we have to take hard decisions for our future. We may suffer a lot because of those decisions at present but those decisions are needed for better and prosperous future. I am going to share with you my one experience with life where a hard decision changes my life completely.
5 years ago I had completed my post graduation and trying to get some job in my native place Satara. I was looking for the job since 1 complete year after passing the post graduation but still could not manage to achieve it around my native place. At that time there were less number of opportunities available near my native place and I did not want to go away from my home for my carrier. There were plenty of job opportunities present in Pune at that time but I think I was having some kind of home sickness because of which I was unable to take the decision of going away from my home and family for the job. My parents many times told me about the life and its problems but because of homesickness I was searching the job nearby my home.
After searching the job for more than a year, slowly my confidence starts decreasing. Now my job searching became a subject of gossiping and joking by my friends and neighbors. I was so much depressed that I could not enjoy any moment of life with my family, my communication and interactions with the friends and family members reduces significantly and loneliness became my friend at that time.
And then that day came when my grandfather took me for a long walk near the Ganesh temple of my village. He knew my condition and we had lot of discussions about the life. He told me his own story of struggle with the life for achieving the today’s reputation and position in the society. He told me how he fights with the world during his student life and how he could manage the survival of the family when he was jobless for couple of years. With the discussion with my grandfather I realize that change is the part of life. Sometimes we have to take some steps which causes pain and those steps took us away from our loved ones but those steps are essential for developing our future in the right direction.
After that day I was completely change my attitude and starts thinking in positive way. I was become so much optimistic that I see any life problem as a chance for betterment of my life. Then after I tried the job opportunities outside my native place and got the job almost immediately at Pune in a well reputed firm. For few initial days I had experienced the homesickness but after concentrating my mind and thinking positively I was able to fight with the homesickness. Now I am enjoying my life here in Pune. Thanks to my parents who always stands behind me when I was unable to fight with my negativity and home sickness. My parent shows me right direction and always supports me during my journey of life.
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That's really great! At times we have to push ourselves beyond our comfort level. You may not have found a suitable employment in your native place ever.
ReplyDeleteCongrats!