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Friday, 20 March 2015
Journey of Stephen Hawking and his wife with optimism
There are many up and downs in every one’s life but there are some exceptions present in world where we experiences some unknown power which is responsible for the miracles in the life. One of such exception is the world famous scientist named Stephen Hawking. You can easily experience the power of optimism in the life of Stephen Hawking.
Stephen Hawking was born in 1942 in England. Up to age of 21 years Hawking were normal boy as like others but there was something different in the mind of god and in early 1963 something went wrong with the Hawking. At the age of 21, Hawking had experienced increasing clumsiness during his final year at Oxford, including a fall on some stairs and difficulties when rowing. His physical problem started developing day by day and his speech became slurred. When Hawking returned to his home then his parents noticed something went wrong with the Stephen. Then after medical inspection it was found that Stephen were suffered from a rare early-onset slow-progressing form of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis , also known as motor neuron disease or Lou Gehrig's disease because of which Hawking slowly paralyzed. He lost his muscle control gradually over the decade. At that time doctors gave him a life expectancy of two years only.
But Stephen’s will power was so strong that he still remains alive even after 2 years and continue to live as usual. Stephen started relationship with Jane Wilde, whom he had met shortly before his diagnosis with motor neuron disease, continued to develop. The couple became engaged in October 1964 and was married in 1965. But his life was not that much simple as his physical condition became gradually serious day by day. Hawking's speech deteriorated, he gradually lost the use of his hand and a strange thing happens when he visits the France. Hawking was affected with pneumonia. His condition was life-threatening; he was so ill that Jane was asked if life support should be terminated.
Now no one can imagine the condition of the lady when a doctor wants her permission to remove the life support of her husband. But the positivity of Jane was so strong that she was fully optimistic about the life of Hawking that she refuses it and strongly asks the doctors about any advance treatment for Stephens Hawking. After that doctors decided to go with tracheotomy, a complicated throat surgery. Not only Jane but also the Stephen Hawking was so optimistic about life that he were completely recovered out of that surgery.
Here we can easily see the optimism of Hawking family especially optimism of Stephen as he recovers from his complex surgery. I think his wife Jane becomes idol for all of us. She was so optimistic that she takes care of the physically handicapped Stephen. Jane gives so much mental and physical support to Stephen that Stephen manages to fight with his rare disease. You cannot imagine but Stephen Hawking still alive today also and in Jan 2015 he has completed his 73 years of age. With his positivity Stephen still delivers his knowledge to entire human race and he manages to discover many scientific theories specially related with black holes and presence of God or creator of the universe.
I think it is the power of optimism which helps Stephen to live and do something for our humans. His wife supports him when Stephen were in critical stage of life and saves his life by taking proper decision. Jane was so optimistic that she knows that Stephen will remain alive even though the expected life of Stephen was only up to 1963 by expert doctors. Definitely it is the power of his will and positivity that changes not only Stephen’s life but also life of entire human race on earth by his research on advanced Quantum gravity and General relativity. To know more about optimism please click on the following link,https://housing.com/
Saturday, 14 March 2015
I have started my new life with change
Life is not as simple as it looks. Many times we have to take hard decisions for our future. We may suffer a lot because of those decisions at present but those decisions are needed for better and prosperous future. I am going to share with you my one experience with life where a hard decision changes my life completely.
5 years ago I had completed my post graduation and trying to get some job in my native place Satara. I was looking for the job since 1 complete year after passing the post graduation but still could not manage to achieve it around my native place. At that time there were less number of opportunities available near my native place and I did not want to go away from my home for my carrier. There were plenty of job opportunities present in Pune at that time but I think I was having some kind of home sickness because of which I was unable to take the decision of going away from my home and family for the job. My parents many times told me about the life and its problems but because of homesickness I was searching the job nearby my home.
After searching the job for more than a year, slowly my confidence starts decreasing. Now my job searching became a subject of gossiping and joking by my friends and neighbors. I was so much depressed that I could not enjoy any moment of life with my family, my communication and interactions with the friends and family members reduces significantly and loneliness became my friend at that time.
And then that day came when my grandfather took me for a long walk near the Ganesh temple of my village. He knew my condition and we had lot of discussions about the life. He told me his own story of struggle with the life for achieving the today’s reputation and position in the society. He told me how he fights with the world during his student life and how he could manage the survival of the family when he was jobless for couple of years. With the discussion with my grandfather I realize that change is the part of life. Sometimes we have to take some steps which causes pain and those steps took us away from our loved ones but those steps are essential for developing our future in the right direction.
After that day I was completely change my attitude and starts thinking in positive way. I was become so much optimistic that I see any life problem as a chance for betterment of my life. Then after I tried the job opportunities outside my native place and got the job almost immediately at Pune in a well reputed firm. For few initial days I had experienced the homesickness but after concentrating my mind and thinking positively I was able to fight with the homesickness. Now I am enjoying my life here in Pune. Thanks to my parents who always stands behind me when I was unable to fight with my negativity and home sickness. My parent shows me right direction and always supports me during my journey of life.
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Yes, I am optimistic about the life
Life on this planet is possible only because of one thing and that is nothing but the ray of hope. Every day started with the ray of Sun which brings something new in our life. The psychological study of human behavior shows that optimism is the key of life. Just imagine what happen if there is nothing new in our life? No doubt, Life becomes unhappy and boring. Just think that what happen when day never ends? Our life is continued on earth because of successive day and night cycle. No one likes the darkness of the night but without night we cannot taste the happiness of day light. Here in this article I will try to introduce you with the importance of optimism in our life.
There are many names for optimism, one call it as positive thinking, one call it as a satisfaction but there is no doubt that it is required for better and healthy life. I have always experienced the power of optimism in my daily life. I am professionally a teacher in an engineering college. I have to tackle many problems at a time such as completion of syllabus in time, maintaining quality of teaching, preparation of teaching plans, unit test papers, schedules of the tests, student’s seminars, project guidance etc. And the most dangerous thing I have to manage is the interaction with the students. Every student has its own mind set and thinking so it is very hard to handle every student and keep them on the right track. So many times I feel very low and low confident during this entire journey. Most of the time different types of work come at a time and then I got confuse and stuck, which results in increased pending work. That time I think positively and always hope for best from my work. This optimism helps me to complete all the pending work with good quality. At some situations the conditions becomes very disappointing that there were no any way out but at such a situations the optimism helps me lot. At such a situation I think that the present condition is the best condition I have for my better future. This approach helps me a lot to come out of the situations and every time some positive force helps me to achieve my goals.
It is medically prove that optimism helps to keep you mentally strong. With this positive force you can handle any pressure situations in your life with full control on your mind. When we think positively then our mind automatically takes the best possible decisions based on the situations. The important is the behavioral changes that came with change in our mind, for example when we are optimistic then our body language shows lot of confidence and high attitude but when we feel depressed then our body language changes drastically and it is directly affecting the way of communicating with the people. Many times most complex jobs could be done with positive attitude because it is reflected from the body language and it helps to build the relationship with our friends and family members during our interactions with them. So I will always think positive and with the help of optimism I shall clear all the obstacles of my life.
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Friday, 23 January 2015
Valentine day - my thinking and way of celebration
Valentine is a day which is celebrated all over the world as symbol to express our love. Valentine's Day began as a liturgical celebration one or more early Christian saints named Valentinus. In the Europe and USA valentine day is a public holiday and everyone enjoys and celebrates this day to express their love with his partner. You know that in our day to day life we can’t get much time to stay with our loved ones. So to keep our love fresh and healthy everyone should express it as and when possible. In many countries like Saudi Arabia, Pakistan and in some parts of India, Valentine day is not celebrated because it is related with the Christians but I think the main reason behind the oppose to the valentine day is the youth from Hindu and Muslim religion are blindly following the western and American culture and there are so many Hindu youth who never read the shrimad bhagavad geeta, they don’t know anything from the Hindu religion, they never worshiped God but these youth follows the American culture as if they are Christian. So I think oppose to the Christian event Valentine day by Hindu and Islamic religion is totally correct and without which these two religions may becomes very weak in the future. One of the very adverse effects of American culture on Hindu religion is the increasing number of live in relationship cases. I think we all have to respect all the religions in the world but everyone should follow and respect their own religion by their heart. I am not going in to the details of these issues here.
I think we can celebrate the valentine day not only with our girlfriend or boy friend but we can celebrate the valentine day with our loved ones such as our parents, friends, relatives, pets and everyone who is directly and indirectly involved with us. The valentine day will gives a chance to express our sincere thanks those who helps and love us but due to today’s life we can’t thank them in return. So I am calling the valentine day a thanks giving day on which we can increase our love and relations with our friends and family members.
So from my point of view if I ever got chance to celebrate the valentine day then I will give a great surprise to my wife. Before the 14thof February I will not tell her anything about the celebration which will hold for her. I will behave normally until the 14th and on the morning I will wake up early in the morning before my wife wake up. Then I am going to keep one gift in the empty tea cup in tray in front of my wife. Once she open her eyes and see the cup, initially she becomes happy that I have made tea for her then once she come near to the cup and lift it up then she understands that the cup is not having the tea but something wrapped in it. So she becomes very happy and when she opens the wrapping then a very beautiful gold ring with a pink heart shaped diamond comes out of the wrapping. I know that she becomes very happy by this beautifully arranged valentine day.
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